The dressage saddle I ordered almost 2 months ago has arrived! After much deliberation, I selected the Stubben Juventus. This saddle is designed for
youths, or petite adults. It only comes in one seat size and flap
length, so it is quicker to make and also less expensive, so I was quite
lucky that the size happens to fit me well! I am 5'2", with I think
average proportions for my height. When I tried the demo saddle it fit
me well, but was big on Cupid. The saddle fitter said he is a 29 tree -
which I didn't expect since his Stubben jumping saddle is a 31. But
they are different models, and that one is foam while this one is wool
flocked. I was a little nervous that I wouldn't like it as much as I remembered from when I tried the demo. I've also heard a lot of horror stories about people buying new custom saddles that end up not fitting at all. I am happy to say that I am quite pleased with my new saddle, but I did have a shock when I opened the box. The demo dressage saddle had a patent trim, and also rhinestones on the stirrup leather keepers and on the back of the saddle. I asked the fitter if I could get it with all black leather, no trim. I asked for the regular leather, not calf skin, so it would be more durable. When I opened the box I realized the saddle had the rhinestones! Ack!
I was panicking a little, thinking I would have to either live with a sparkly saddle or wait 6-8 weeks for another one. But my rep told me the rhinestone parts were interchangeable, and when he comes out in 2 weeks to adjust the flocking he will remove it and replace with plain pieces. Phew!
The saddle has a point billets (comes out from the bottom of the knee roll), so I'm still kind of getting used to that. I think I only put the rear billet through the saddle pad keepers? The saddle also comes with a velcro knee block. My trainer helped me adjust it. At first we had it a bit low and it wasn't comfortable, but I think it's in the proper place now.
I like the leather a lot. Despite not being calf, it is fairly soft and had a nice light grip. I opted for the Biomex seat, and a few rides in I think it does help my lower back quite a bit! Sometimes my lower back is starting to hurt by the end of an hour long ride, maybe it was a coincidence but I didn't feel anything today.
A journal to chronicle my adventures with my OTTB Cupid. Instagram: @sheer.cupidity
Tuesday, October 24, 2017
Tuesday, October 17, 2017
Smoky
The air quality has been very poor due to fires nearby, so we have been advised to take it easy with our horses. Luckily we are not in danger of the fires themselves, they are about 2 hours north of us, but that area has been devastated and horses and people up there had to evacuate. I never thought about that happening to me, but at least now I have the trailer if I do need to move Cupid in an emergency.
We have been doing some flatwork, keeping it fairly light. My trainer created a canter exercise meant to address our imbalance: when we go to the right we do a 20 meter circle at E or B, then shoulder in down the rest of the long side and circle again at A or C. To the left we leg yield instead of shoulder in. This exercise also helps me work on preparing better for the changes, since the elements in the exercise come up pretty quickly. When we went to the left I let Cupid drop to a trot a few times; to the right I didn't really have to do anything to keep him going. So note to self to make sure I keep my leg on, especially as we're going on his weaker side!
Cupid got his vaccines and his teeth done. The vet said he did have some hooks in his teeth, hopefully he is feeling more comfortable now. The following day I decided we should do a groundwork lesson instead of ride. Cupid seems to have fun with it. We worked on backing up straight; he tends to drift towards his right side so it was easier keeping him straight when I was on his right side. But he is pretty good at moving off just following my feet. A new exercise we did was moving his shoulders. Right now I'm not able to quite isolate the front end, but my trainer said to accept it as long as the shoulder was moving even if his hind end followed.
We have been doing some flatwork, keeping it fairly light. My trainer created a canter exercise meant to address our imbalance: when we go to the right we do a 20 meter circle at E or B, then shoulder in down the rest of the long side and circle again at A or C. To the left we leg yield instead of shoulder in. This exercise also helps me work on preparing better for the changes, since the elements in the exercise come up pretty quickly. When we went to the left I let Cupid drop to a trot a few times; to the right I didn't really have to do anything to keep him going. So note to self to make sure I keep my leg on, especially as we're going on his weaker side!
Cupid got his vaccines and his teeth done. The vet said he did have some hooks in his teeth, hopefully he is feeling more comfortable now. The following day I decided we should do a groundwork lesson instead of ride. Cupid seems to have fun with it. We worked on backing up straight; he tends to drift towards his right side so it was easier keeping him straight when I was on his right side. But he is pretty good at moving off just following my feet. A new exercise we did was moving his shoulders. Right now I'm not able to quite isolate the front end, but my trainer said to accept it as long as the shoulder was moving even if his hind end followed.
Tuesday, October 3, 2017
Trail Ride at Runnymede Sculpture Garden
There was a local schooling show last weekend, and I thought it would be good for Cupid and me to go and redeem ourselves after the combined test disaster, but then I decided a trail ride would be more fun. :p
Cupid loaded up nicely, and we set off. I parked down the road from my friend's barn (since it's too narrow to turn around closer), and tied Cupid to the trailer to tack up. I had him stand along a fence to mount (I need to get a little mounting block/step stool for my trailer!) and headed up. Cupid was looking around a little but walking calmly. My friend met us midway coming the opposite direction, riding one horse and ponying the other. Our original plan was to ride in Huddart Park, where we rode last time, but we got to the trail head and there was a sign saying it was closed. So we decided to try the sculpture garden instead; I've heard of it but never been there and wasn't sure if Cupid would be bothered by the art.
The sculpture garden is flatter than Huddart, and the trails wider. I kept Cupid behind my friend's horse and he was very good, walking along on a loose rein pretty much the entire ride. We tried closing a gate, but the gate swung both directions and didn't stay in the middle so you had to hold it the whole time. Cupid moved his butt over along the fence when I asked, but then he started backing up when I had the gate in one hand and the chain in the other, so my friend ended up getting it. Oh well, something we still need to work on!
The art is mainly large metal abstract pieces, but there were some that were animals or people. Cupid didn't bat an eye at any of them. My friend's been through there many times on her horses so they didn't care, so I think Cupid followed their lead!


We walked around for about 2 hours, and even though we only walked Cupid was sweaty. We got back to the trailer and I realized I should have filled my water reservoir. All I had was a 20 oz water bottle! I poured it into a bucket and Cupid drank it all, I felt bad I didn't have more for him.
I was about to load him back up, when I realized there was a horse behind the fence next to us. The horse came up to the fence, and then Cupid really wanted to go make friends. Then he didn't want to load. I hope he was just distracted by the horse, and not hesitant because he doesn't like my driving or the trailer! But he got on and seemed quiet on the way home.
Cupid loaded up nicely, and we set off. I parked down the road from my friend's barn (since it's too narrow to turn around closer), and tied Cupid to the trailer to tack up. I had him stand along a fence to mount (I need to get a little mounting block/step stool for my trailer!) and headed up. Cupid was looking around a little but walking calmly. My friend met us midway coming the opposite direction, riding one horse and ponying the other. Our original plan was to ride in Huddart Park, where we rode last time, but we got to the trail head and there was a sign saying it was closed. So we decided to try the sculpture garden instead; I've heard of it but never been there and wasn't sure if Cupid would be bothered by the art.
The sculpture garden is flatter than Huddart, and the trails wider. I kept Cupid behind my friend's horse and he was very good, walking along on a loose rein pretty much the entire ride. We tried closing a gate, but the gate swung both directions and didn't stay in the middle so you had to hold it the whole time. Cupid moved his butt over along the fence when I asked, but then he started backing up when I had the gate in one hand and the chain in the other, so my friend ended up getting it. Oh well, something we still need to work on!
The art is mainly large metal abstract pieces, but there were some that were animals or people. Cupid didn't bat an eye at any of them. My friend's been through there many times on her horses so they didn't care, so I think Cupid followed their lead!


We walked around for about 2 hours, and even though we only walked Cupid was sweaty. We got back to the trailer and I realized I should have filled my water reservoir. All I had was a 20 oz water bottle! I poured it into a bucket and Cupid drank it all, I felt bad I didn't have more for him.
I was about to load him back up, when I realized there was a horse behind the fence next to us. The horse came up to the fence, and then Cupid really wanted to go make friends. Then he didn't want to load. I hope he was just distracted by the horse, and not hesitant because he doesn't like my driving or the trailer! But he got on and seemed quiet on the way home.
Wednesday, September 27, 2017
Back on Track
I had a great vacation, but I missed Cupid a lot and was happy to come back! Cupid had gotten quite a bit more fuzzy over the past week. I'll probably have him clipped in a few weeks. My trainer rode Cupid a few times while I was gone, primarily flatwork and working on acceptance of the bit, and said he was good. Except the last ride, when apparently he was a little distracted/spooky. :p
Saturday I just did a little hack around the property, easing back into it!
Sunday - I rode Cupid in the outdoor arena. I put my German martingale on, in case he got used to how my trainer rides him with a steadier contact! He was very good. I tried to focus on keeping my leg long, and also making sure he was nice and forward, and working on bending, some serpentines, and leg yields. We cantered a bit each direction, doing the easier side (right) first. I ended with taking the martingale off and doing some stretchy trot. We did have 2 spooks, once at a horse walking on the path below the arena and the second time I couldn't tell why but luckily they weren't too bad.
We took Monday off, and had a lesson on Tuesday. Cupid felt fantastic! At first I thought he might be a little footsore, but realized he was just using himself a little better which to me translated to feeling like he is lighter on his feet! The jumps were all removed form the arena (just a few standards and poles piles), so we had plenty of room. My trainer took some video clips, and I realized I need to work on keeping my hands lower and elbows more bent.
Wednesday - I hopped on Cupid bareback and we walked around the property for about 20 minutes. No spooks!
Saturday I just did a little hack around the property, easing back into it!
Sunday - I rode Cupid in the outdoor arena. I put my German martingale on, in case he got used to how my trainer rides him with a steadier contact! He was very good. I tried to focus on keeping my leg long, and also making sure he was nice and forward, and working on bending, some serpentines, and leg yields. We cantered a bit each direction, doing the easier side (right) first. I ended with taking the martingale off and doing some stretchy trot. We did have 2 spooks, once at a horse walking on the path below the arena and the second time I couldn't tell why but luckily they weren't too bad.
We took Monday off, and had a lesson on Tuesday. Cupid felt fantastic! At first I thought he might be a little footsore, but realized he was just using himself a little better which to me translated to feeling like he is lighter on his feet! The jumps were all removed form the arena (just a few standards and poles piles), so we had plenty of room. My trainer took some video clips, and I realized I need to work on keeping my hands lower and elbows more bent.
Wednesday, September 20, 2017
Time Off
I was gone a few days for work travel. I had two days in between before more travel, so of course I was eager to get out to see Cupid. To my surprise I find him with a chunk missing out of his left hind hoof! I have no idea what he did. Like I said, I thought we had made good improvements in his hoof quality, then we had that loose shoe and now this.
Someone told me this is the winter hoof growing out, from the muddy season so that is why it seems like we have regressed. I guess that makes sense. I sent the shoer a picture and he said it looked ok, I could break off the piece hanging and he will be out in two days. I don't have hoof trimmers and breaking it off seemed like it might cause more damage so I just left it as is. I just did an easy eide, walk only. After the shoer came out he thought it was a fluke occurrence and that we should keep doing as we were.
I will be gone for a week and my trainer will get Cupid out a few times while I'm gone. I know Cupid is in good hands, but I miss him and can't wait to get back and ride!
Someone told me this is the winter hoof growing out, from the muddy season so that is why it seems like we have regressed. I guess that makes sense. I sent the shoer a picture and he said it looked ok, I could break off the piece hanging and he will be out in two days. I don't have hoof trimmers and breaking it off seemed like it might cause more damage so I just left it as is. I just did an easy eide, walk only. After the shoer came out he thought it was a fluke occurrence and that we should keep doing as we were.
I will be gone for a week and my trainer will get Cupid out a few times while I'm gone. I know Cupid is in good hands, but I miss him and can't wait to get back and ride!
Wednesday, September 13, 2017
Woodside Event Derby
The Woodside Event Derby is a combined test which includes dressage, and jumping on the XC course with a combination of cross country and stadium jumps. Our lead up to the event was not ideal, as Thursday morning I found Cupid with a slightly loose and twisted shoe. Since he doesn't have the greatest feet I didn't want to take any chances, so I cancelled my lesson, put a no turnout sign on his stall, and called the farrier. Unfortunately the farrier was not able to come out until late Friday night, so Cupid was in his stall all day for two days. By this point I was starting to consider just scratching the event. I just had time for a short ride under the lights Friday night, it wasn't great just felt a little sloppy but I cleaned and packed my things and figured we'll see how it goes.
I was scheduled to ride first in the entire event. The upside was I got the warmup arena to myself! We had a good, uneventful warmup. Cupid was very relaxed, but not lazy. We trotted circles, did a little shoulder fore, then rode down the rail and did a few diagonals. We cantered both directions. I was still a little worried about the left lead as our last couple rides we haven't been consistent about picking it up, and it comes first in our Beginner Novice test.
We trotted around the dressage court, and I reminded myself not to halt at the first X! I tried to get a good trot going down the centerline. We trotted our 20 meter circles, then picking up the left lead canter Cupid stumbled a little and shook his head but got the correct lead. Our right lead was smoother. We had a nice down transition to walk, and I thought a good free walk. I still had a little trouble on the short court with the walk to trot transition immediately followed by the turn onto the centerline, but I thought we had a good halt. Overall I was very happy with our test! I felt it was a definite improvement from our last one.
We had 1.5 hours until our jumping portion, so I went to walk the course with my trainer. It started off with easy little logs that we've jumped before, and a few little verticals set up. However the last few jumps were significantly bigger. One was hay bales, and there was a Beginner Novice sized log. I was feeling pretty good about it, and excited.
I was hanging out at the trailer, about to tack up and all of the sudden realized I had my start time totally wrong in my mind somehow! Instead of going to the warm up I had to go straight to the start box, I was actually already late. As I got there the person who was supposed to go after me was already there and about to go, so I had a few minutes. I walked Cupid around and I could feel his energy building. I started walking around the start box and it was getting worse, I could feel him start to get light on his front feet. I did not feel comfortable going out on the cross country course like this and said I wanted to scratch! The starter said I had a few minutes and my trainer encouraged me to try to get Cupid to settle, but I was getting unnerved too. I decided to scratch, but my trainer said lets go to the warm up and maybe we could try to see if they would let us go later in the order.
In the warmup Cupid was like his old self, how he was a year ago; tense and quick. I trotted him around trying to get him to settle. I was okay doing that, but did not really want to jump even just in the warmup jumps. So we trotted around, I was trying to get Cupid to bend and pay attention and out of nowhere he let out a giant buck and sent me flying! I was caught by surprised, and since I was tense probably leaning up his neck. Luckily I felt fine, so I got on and made Cupid keep going until he was some semblance of behaving.
We walked back across the cross country course, and Cupid got pretty excited seeing other horses galloping and cantering. He was doing his racehorse prance. I got off and walked him, and also made him stand for a bit. When he was a little more settled we walked up and down a little bank.
This event did not go at all like I had expected, or hoped. It was a learning experience, but it is hard not to get discouraged. I'm not sure what happened. I think in part maybe Cupid just felt like he was done, and I should practice at home riding him, taking a break, and getting back on. I also got some good advice to just loosen his girth but leave his saddle on so Cupid has a better idea he is not done.
Going forward I know I want to continue working on dressage, and addressing the comments from the judge (mostly about being above the bit, and also straightness and impulsion). As far as jumping, I'm on the fence. I will still do it at home for variety and since Cupid seems to enjoy it, but right now I feel like showing is just too much anxiety for me. But maybe this feeling is just temporary.
I was scheduled to ride first in the entire event. The upside was I got the warmup arena to myself! We had a good, uneventful warmup. Cupid was very relaxed, but not lazy. We trotted circles, did a little shoulder fore, then rode down the rail and did a few diagonals. We cantered both directions. I was still a little worried about the left lead as our last couple rides we haven't been consistent about picking it up, and it comes first in our Beginner Novice test.
We trotted around the dressage court, and I reminded myself not to halt at the first X! I tried to get a good trot going down the centerline. We trotted our 20 meter circles, then picking up the left lead canter Cupid stumbled a little and shook his head but got the correct lead. Our right lead was smoother. We had a nice down transition to walk, and I thought a good free walk. I still had a little trouble on the short court with the walk to trot transition immediately followed by the turn onto the centerline, but I thought we had a good halt. Overall I was very happy with our test! I felt it was a definite improvement from our last one.
We had 1.5 hours until our jumping portion, so I went to walk the course with my trainer. It started off with easy little logs that we've jumped before, and a few little verticals set up. However the last few jumps were significantly bigger. One was hay bales, and there was a Beginner Novice sized log. I was feeling pretty good about it, and excited.
I was hanging out at the trailer, about to tack up and all of the sudden realized I had my start time totally wrong in my mind somehow! Instead of going to the warm up I had to go straight to the start box, I was actually already late. As I got there the person who was supposed to go after me was already there and about to go, so I had a few minutes. I walked Cupid around and I could feel his energy building. I started walking around the start box and it was getting worse, I could feel him start to get light on his front feet. I did not feel comfortable going out on the cross country course like this and said I wanted to scratch! The starter said I had a few minutes and my trainer encouraged me to try to get Cupid to settle, but I was getting unnerved too. I decided to scratch, but my trainer said lets go to the warm up and maybe we could try to see if they would let us go later in the order.
In the warmup Cupid was like his old self, how he was a year ago; tense and quick. I trotted him around trying to get him to settle. I was okay doing that, but did not really want to jump even just in the warmup jumps. So we trotted around, I was trying to get Cupid to bend and pay attention and out of nowhere he let out a giant buck and sent me flying! I was caught by surprised, and since I was tense probably leaning up his neck. Luckily I felt fine, so I got on and made Cupid keep going until he was some semblance of behaving.
We walked back across the cross country course, and Cupid got pretty excited seeing other horses galloping and cantering. He was doing his racehorse prance. I got off and walked him, and also made him stand for a bit. When he was a little more settled we walked up and down a little bank.
This event did not go at all like I had expected, or hoped. It was a learning experience, but it is hard not to get discouraged. I'm not sure what happened. I think in part maybe Cupid just felt like he was done, and I should practice at home riding him, taking a break, and getting back on. I also got some good advice to just loosen his girth but leave his saddle on so Cupid has a better idea he is not done.
Going forward I know I want to continue working on dressage, and addressing the comments from the judge (mostly about being above the bit, and also straightness and impulsion). As far as jumping, I'm on the fence. I will still do it at home for variety and since Cupid seems to enjoy it, but right now I feel like showing is just too much anxiety for me. But maybe this feeling is just temporary.
Tuesday, September 5, 2017
Huddart Park Trail Ride
On Labor Day Cupid and I met an old friend for a trail ride! I was very relieved that the heat wave had finally broken. We parked a little outside the park, and walked up a quiet residential street. We were walking along the side of the road, then had to get onto the road when there was no more path. Afterwards Cupid didn't want to go back up the curb to the path, and was pretty much doing a shoulder in to avoid it. I finally got him back up on the path. Then we met our friend, who was riding one horse and ponying another! Her horses are used to it. We had one incident, where a car was coming down a driveway and Cupid caught a glimpse of it through the bushes and spun around. Then he froze in place, and I turned him around and we continued up the path without incident.
We got to the park and headed down a trail, Cupid and I following in the back. At one part we had to go down a good size step down, which Cupid was totally fine with. Luckily the creek was dry so I didn't have to find out whether Cupid is okay with running water. The bed was full of large rocks, which didn't bother him. But then he balked at a switchback. I'm not sure why he didn't like it; there was a smaller step down and some roots but overall it didn't look that unusual to me. But when I asked Cupid to go forward he went backwards. He did it a few times, and since the trail dropped on one side I was worried he would get hurt. I decided to get off, and after some coaxing I was able to lead him through it. I don't think I've ever mounted Cupid from the ground, but he stood still for me while I got back on and luckily I didn't pull my saddle over!
The rest of the ride went well. We just walked, but Cupid behaved very well. We led a few times, but Cupid seemed happier to be following. When we were in front he was more alert and a little cautious, but was still good. We passed a lot of hikers and a few bikers, without incident. We did have to turn around and backtrack twice, when the trails we were on were blocked by fallen trees! It was a little narrow turning around, one of the times Cupid's feet slid a little down the side but we got through it.
The terrain was mostly rolling hills, and Cupid got a very good workout even just walking. I think he would have gotten too quick trotting, but hopefully with a few more outings he will be good.
We got to the park and headed down a trail, Cupid and I following in the back. At one part we had to go down a good size step down, which Cupid was totally fine with. Luckily the creek was dry so I didn't have to find out whether Cupid is okay with running water. The bed was full of large rocks, which didn't bother him. But then he balked at a switchback. I'm not sure why he didn't like it; there was a smaller step down and some roots but overall it didn't look that unusual to me. But when I asked Cupid to go forward he went backwards. He did it a few times, and since the trail dropped on one side I was worried he would get hurt. I decided to get off, and after some coaxing I was able to lead him through it. I don't think I've ever mounted Cupid from the ground, but he stood still for me while I got back on and luckily I didn't pull my saddle over!
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| Photo from http://parks.smcgov.org/huddart-park; I didn't want to take me camera (aka phone) and lose it! |
The rest of the ride went well. We just walked, but Cupid behaved very well. We led a few times, but Cupid seemed happier to be following. When we were in front he was more alert and a little cautious, but was still good. We passed a lot of hikers and a few bikers, without incident. We did have to turn around and backtrack twice, when the trails we were on were blocked by fallen trees! It was a little narrow turning around, one of the times Cupid's feet slid a little down the side but we got through it.
The terrain was mostly rolling hills, and Cupid got a very good workout even just walking. I think he would have gotten too quick trotting, but hopefully with a few more outings he will be good.
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| A sweaty Cupid post-ride |
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