After we were back on the property he felt much more relaxed right away. In case he still had some nervous energy I let him into the new round pen. He did trot and throw a few bucks! But mostly he enjoyed rolling in the sand. He rolled about 6 times!
A journal to chronicle my adventures with my OTTB Cupid. Instagram: @sheer.cupidity
Wednesday, November 30, 2016
Happy Thanksgiving
On Thanksgiving day Cupid and I took a walk down the road to the county park where we can trail ride. I decided to put a chain on his nose just in case. On the way there he started out pretty good, but once again he started getting nervous as we got further away from home. I was hoping that if I led him instead of rode he would be calmer, since I wouldn't be nervous and passing that on to him, but I don't think it made much difference. Even though there was lot of grass at the park he was too distracted to enjoy it. He was on high alert and wanted to keep moving, but luckily wasn't dragging me or doing anything really naughty. I waited until he felt a little relaxed then headed back. He definitely wanted to get back home, but luckily for the most part still behaved. It was tough in a few parts where the trail was very narrow I had to walk in front of him, he's not used to being led like that and since he was nervous I was worried he would run me over. Luckily we made it back in one piece.
After we were back on the property he felt much more relaxed right away. In case he still had some nervous energy I let him into the new round pen. He did trot and throw a few bucks! But mostly he enjoyed rolling in the sand. He rolled about 6 times!
After we were back on the property he felt much more relaxed right away. In case he still had some nervous energy I let him into the new round pen. He did trot and throw a few bucks! But mostly he enjoyed rolling in the sand. He rolled about 6 times!
Wednesday, November 23, 2016
Follow the Leader
It's hard to believe that Cupid is nearing the end of his five year old year, seems like just yesterday he was that super green three year old. But last weekend he served as the old pro for my friend's first ride outside the arena on her three year old! We spent about half an hour walking around the property, with the three year old following quietly behind Cupid. We passed by some commotion with fence work being done, horses being ridden, bunnies running in front of us. Cupid actually had one small spook getting startled coming around a corner, but it didn't bother the other horse. We stepped over a little log too. I think Cupid enjoyed having some company.
On Sunday it was raining, and we rode in a very crowded arena. Cupid was very good, and we even cantered around quietly. We have been pretty good about picking up the left lead, but he does seem to struggle a little towards the end of a ride if he's getting tired. We may need to work a little on fitness.
My trainer rode Cupid last week. I wasn't there to watch but she said he was very good and has made a lot of progress since she last rode him several weeks ago. I have pretty much gotten to the point where I have taught Cupid everything I know, so I asked my trainer to start riding him periodically to help him progress more. Especially with our dressage / flatwork in general, this is as high as I ever got with my last horse so we will have to learn together from here.
On Sunday it was raining, and we rode in a very crowded arena. Cupid was very good, and we even cantered around quietly. We have been pretty good about picking up the left lead, but he does seem to struggle a little towards the end of a ride if he's getting tired. We may need to work a little on fitness.
My trainer rode Cupid last week. I wasn't there to watch but she said he was very good and has made a lot of progress since she last rode him several weeks ago. I have pretty much gotten to the point where I have taught Cupid everything I know, so I asked my trainer to start riding him periodically to help him progress more. Especially with our dressage / flatwork in general, this is as high as I ever got with my last horse so we will have to learn together from here.
Tuesday, November 1, 2016
Clipped
I am really happy, and relieved, that Cupid was totally back to his normal self our last two rides! Prior to that he was still being reluctant the first time I would ask for a trot, and I would have to get after him a little, and then he'd be mostly okay afterwards. But our last two rides he was perfectly responsive.
I was gone a few days last week for a work trip, and my trainer was set to ride Cupid in my absence. I was looking forward to hopefully seeing some progress. Unfortunately the day I was leaving I went out to find Cupid missing a shoe. I called the shoer, but he was not able to fix it until the day I came back so she didn't ride.
Cupid got a trace clip, done by one of the other trainers at my barn. He has been sweating from even pretty easy rides, so hopefully this will help him be more comfortable.
Cupid and I did a little trail ride. This was our first good ride, Cupid was not hesitant to trot at all. I thought it was just because he was happier being out of the arena. He even cantered a few strides up a little incline. I asked him to rough it a little, scrambling up a few steps between two trails that run parallel. He hadn't been on the upper trail before, it dead ends in a little clearing where there is a shed/garage. We walked past it, and Cupid was pretty surprised by a tarp covered pile on the other side. I was surprised by his reaction, I wouldn't have expected him to be wary of it. But he was staring at it, a bit curious but also nervous so he would slowly inch towards it, then freeze and back up. I ignored it and made him do a few little circles and figure eights. I didn't make him go all the way up to it, I just wanted him to focus on me.
Then we found an empty pasture to walk around in. When it rains the water forms a stream across. Right now it was mostly just a muddy, marshy line across the pasture. We walked up towards it, and Cupid stopped in front of it. He jumped over the first time, but walked through the next few times as we went back and forth across it. I had fun doing something a little different, and will try to keep riding him out a little more though it will be hard in the winter.
The next day I had my lesson, and again Cupid was great. We did some flat work including circles, bending and shoulder fore both sides, and making sure I balance with a half halt before the corners. We did a little canter work, and Cupid got both leads correct.
Then we trotted through a few poles, and Cupid was more relaxed then the last time we did this. We ended up doing a little cross rail a few times each direction. Cupid was good, and relaxed throughout. My trainer said we would do some longe line work, so I can focus on my position a little more. I also talked to her about maybe riding Cupid semi-regularly, since he now pretty much knows everything I do I think I will need a little more help to continue with his progress!
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| Goofy horse, playing with his brush |
I was gone a few days last week for a work trip, and my trainer was set to ride Cupid in my absence. I was looking forward to hopefully seeing some progress. Unfortunately the day I was leaving I went out to find Cupid missing a shoe. I called the shoer, but he was not able to fix it until the day I came back so she didn't ride.
Cupid got a trace clip, done by one of the other trainers at my barn. He has been sweating from even pretty easy rides, so hopefully this will help him be more comfortable.
Cupid and I did a little trail ride. This was our first good ride, Cupid was not hesitant to trot at all. I thought it was just because he was happier being out of the arena. He even cantered a few strides up a little incline. I asked him to rough it a little, scrambling up a few steps between two trails that run parallel. He hadn't been on the upper trail before, it dead ends in a little clearing where there is a shed/garage. We walked past it, and Cupid was pretty surprised by a tarp covered pile on the other side. I was surprised by his reaction, I wouldn't have expected him to be wary of it. But he was staring at it, a bit curious but also nervous so he would slowly inch towards it, then freeze and back up. I ignored it and made him do a few little circles and figure eights. I didn't make him go all the way up to it, I just wanted him to focus on me.
Then we found an empty pasture to walk around in. When it rains the water forms a stream across. Right now it was mostly just a muddy, marshy line across the pasture. We walked up towards it, and Cupid stopped in front of it. He jumped over the first time, but walked through the next few times as we went back and forth across it. I had fun doing something a little different, and will try to keep riding him out a little more though it will be hard in the winter.
The next day I had my lesson, and again Cupid was great. We did some flat work including circles, bending and shoulder fore both sides, and making sure I balance with a half halt before the corners. We did a little canter work, and Cupid got both leads correct.
Then we trotted through a few poles, and Cupid was more relaxed then the last time we did this. We ended up doing a little cross rail a few times each direction. Cupid was good, and relaxed throughout. My trainer said we would do some longe line work, so I can focus on my position a little more. I also talked to her about maybe riding Cupid semi-regularly, since he now pretty much knows everything I do I think I will need a little more help to continue with his progress!
Vital Signs
Although I felt like I was making progress with Cupid I still had some concerns that he was uncomfortable. Plus he was due for vaccines anyhow, so we scheduled a vet appointment.
The vet measured Cupid at 15.3 hands, and just over 900 lbs. (the first time he's broken 900!) His temperature was 99.9 degrees. The vet watched him trot and checked him over from head to tail, and said that overall Cupid looks like a very healthy horse. The only thing he could find was that he was a little reactive to the hoof testers in both his front feet, and recommended packing his feet a few days to see if that helps. Also he is due for dental, but just for regular maintenance. We discussed the behavioral issues, and the vet's conclusion was that Cupid was a little bored and just taking advantage of me! He suggested I try helping the feet, and also seeing if Cupid is more willing to go outside the arena. He didn't think a blood test would turn up anything, and said if things don't improve we can do a more thorough lameness workup and maybe xray the feet.
The following day I resolved to be more firm if necessary in our ride. It started off well at the walk, but as soon as I started organizing myself to ask for a trot transition Cupid started balking and sure enough when I put my leg on he stopped dead. I gave him a few taps with the whip behind my leg, and he swished his tail and pinned his ears and kicked out. I squeezed again, he didn't move, so I gave a few taps with the whip and he kicked again. I asked again, and he reluctantly trotted off. Once he got going he was fine. We did trot work for a little bit, then I let him walk. The next time I asked for a trot it was much better!
The next day was Saturday, and I rode him outside the arena. The ground was a little muddy but not too bad. We went all around the property and found a few places where we could trot a little. This time he was good about picking it up. We also did (I think) our first gate. Cupid was a little confused, but good. We were facing the gate, so first I asked him to move his hindquarters around so I can reach down and unlatch it. My old horse used to always push the gate open with his nose but Cupid doesn't know that trick so I pushed it open. Then I asked Cupid to swing his hindquarters the other way so we can walk through. It was the gate to an empty large paddock, we rode a loop inside along the fence, then walked out and closed the gate behind us. It's not trail-class worthy yet, I definitely can't keep my hand on it the whole time, but it was a fun exercise.
Since then I've had one more ride and a lesson. Each time I had to be a little firm the first time I ask for a trot, but afterwards Cupid is very good. We also were able to get the left lead canter each ride. In our lesson today we did some trot poles (three poles each one trot stride apart) and Cupid was a little excited about it. We circled before the poles until he relaxed a little, and halted after them. I went through the line of poles three times halting afterwards. The next time I went through he was good - until all of the sudden I felt him losing steam under me. He thought I forgot to halt and would help me out! He does seem to pick up on patterns. Originally we were going to end with a crossrail but decided that was enough for today.
The vet measured Cupid at 15.3 hands, and just over 900 lbs. (the first time he's broken 900!) His temperature was 99.9 degrees. The vet watched him trot and checked him over from head to tail, and said that overall Cupid looks like a very healthy horse. The only thing he could find was that he was a little reactive to the hoof testers in both his front feet, and recommended packing his feet a few days to see if that helps. Also he is due for dental, but just for regular maintenance. We discussed the behavioral issues, and the vet's conclusion was that Cupid was a little bored and just taking advantage of me! He suggested I try helping the feet, and also seeing if Cupid is more willing to go outside the arena. He didn't think a blood test would turn up anything, and said if things don't improve we can do a more thorough lameness workup and maybe xray the feet.
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| Getting kisses - apology for misbehaving and causing me to worry? |
The following day I resolved to be more firm if necessary in our ride. It started off well at the walk, but as soon as I started organizing myself to ask for a trot transition Cupid started balking and sure enough when I put my leg on he stopped dead. I gave him a few taps with the whip behind my leg, and he swished his tail and pinned his ears and kicked out. I squeezed again, he didn't move, so I gave a few taps with the whip and he kicked again. I asked again, and he reluctantly trotted off. Once he got going he was fine. We did trot work for a little bit, then I let him walk. The next time I asked for a trot it was much better!
The next day was Saturday, and I rode him outside the arena. The ground was a little muddy but not too bad. We went all around the property and found a few places where we could trot a little. This time he was good about picking it up. We also did (I think) our first gate. Cupid was a little confused, but good. We were facing the gate, so first I asked him to move his hindquarters around so I can reach down and unlatch it. My old horse used to always push the gate open with his nose but Cupid doesn't know that trick so I pushed it open. Then I asked Cupid to swing his hindquarters the other way so we can walk through. It was the gate to an empty large paddock, we rode a loop inside along the fence, then walked out and closed the gate behind us. It's not trail-class worthy yet, I definitely can't keep my hand on it the whole time, but it was a fun exercise.
Since then I've had one more ride and a lesson. Each time I had to be a little firm the first time I ask for a trot, but afterwards Cupid is very good. We also were able to get the left lead canter each ride. In our lesson today we did some trot poles (three poles each one trot stride apart) and Cupid was a little excited about it. We circled before the poles until he relaxed a little, and halted after them. I went through the line of poles three times halting afterwards. The next time I went through he was good - until all of the sudden I felt him losing steam under me. He thought I forgot to halt and would help me out! He does seem to pick up on patterns. Originally we were going to end with a crossrail but decided that was enough for today.
Friday, October 21, 2016
First Rains
The days are getting a lot shorter, and we've had our first rains. Luckily the ground was dry and soaked it up pretty quick so there isn't much mud. Our outdoor arena had new footing installed. When I tried it it was still pretty deep but hopefully it will settle and be an improvement. The indoor was also deep dragged, so was uneven and lumpy for a few days but now it is quite good.
I'm not totally sure what to make of Cupid's health/attitude right now. He is still sometimes grumpy/sensitive when I ask him to trot. It is much better, less frequent and if it does happen I just need to ask again and he'll go. I've also figured out the best position to ask; sitting back slightly but keeping my seat light, and then just a squeeze with my legs at the girth (instead of behind where they tend to slip to). I was thinking of maybe doing a blood panel to make sure Cupid doesn't have any deficiencies. I asked my trainer about it and she thought it was worth discussing with the vet; Cupid is due for vaccines anyhow so I can ask then. Or could it just be the change in season or a growth spurt? I really don't know, but it is making me a little stressed because he is just not acting like himself.
We had some pretty good flatwork lessons this week, aside from the few times he didn't want to go. But we got the left lead both lessons! At first I was still having some trouble, so what we did was go to the right, pick up the right lead, then go across the diagonal changing directions but staying on the right lead to the left. We went around the short end and down the long end in the counter canter, then I asked for a simple change in the next corner and we got the left lead! I think Cupid realized it would be easier than continuing to counter canter! In my last lesson we also started from the right lead, but asked for the simple change on the diagonal and got it the first try, so maybe Cupid remembered. My trainer said I am usually better about keeping him straight on a diagonal too.
I've been working hard on my position (especially soft elbows, hands closed, and heels down), and on riding more off my outside rein. An exercise I did was to ride a twenty meter circle at the trot, then do a ten(ish) meter circle between the outside line and centerpoint of the big circle, resisting the urge to pull my inside rein. My trainer said take and give on the inside rein if I need to, but not hold it. It also helped having my crop in my outside hand to keep his shoulder from going out, especially going to the left. It was much easier going to the right.
I finally ordered a tack trunk to go in front of Cupid's stall. I have so much stuff for him I think I need about 3 more...
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| Time to get the blanket out, but at least we're getting some grass |
I'm not totally sure what to make of Cupid's health/attitude right now. He is still sometimes grumpy/sensitive when I ask him to trot. It is much better, less frequent and if it does happen I just need to ask again and he'll go. I've also figured out the best position to ask; sitting back slightly but keeping my seat light, and then just a squeeze with my legs at the girth (instead of behind where they tend to slip to). I was thinking of maybe doing a blood panel to make sure Cupid doesn't have any deficiencies. I asked my trainer about it and she thought it was worth discussing with the vet; Cupid is due for vaccines anyhow so I can ask then. Or could it just be the change in season or a growth spurt? I really don't know, but it is making me a little stressed because he is just not acting like himself.
We had some pretty good flatwork lessons this week, aside from the few times he didn't want to go. But we got the left lead both lessons! At first I was still having some trouble, so what we did was go to the right, pick up the right lead, then go across the diagonal changing directions but staying on the right lead to the left. We went around the short end and down the long end in the counter canter, then I asked for a simple change in the next corner and we got the left lead! I think Cupid realized it would be easier than continuing to counter canter! In my last lesson we also started from the right lead, but asked for the simple change on the diagonal and got it the first try, so maybe Cupid remembered. My trainer said I am usually better about keeping him straight on a diagonal too.
I've been working hard on my position (especially soft elbows, hands closed, and heels down), and on riding more off my outside rein. An exercise I did was to ride a twenty meter circle at the trot, then do a ten(ish) meter circle between the outside line and centerpoint of the big circle, resisting the urge to pull my inside rein. My trainer said take and give on the inside rein if I need to, but not hold it. It also helped having my crop in my outside hand to keep his shoulder from going out, especially going to the left. It was much easier going to the right.
I finally ordered a tack trunk to go in front of Cupid's stall. I have so much stuff for him I think I need about 3 more...
Thursday, October 13, 2016
Rest and Recovery
Cupid had a little over a week off, with just the ground driving session and a little light lunging. He kept himself busy chasing around a new horse in his pasture I think. Today I found him with a new scratch on his neck, looks like it could be teeth marks.
We also decided to do a course of UlcerGard, just in case. I was told there wouldn't be any bad side effects even if it's not really necessary. My trainer asked me if he was being "more mouthy than usual" as he was chewing on first some spurs, then his lunge line. But he's always done that.
Our first ride back was just a light hack around the property. He seemed to be feeling okay, and was very good about walking through some rough trails that were pretty overgrown. Though he is getting worst about trying to stop and eat! We had a little excitement when we walked by a paddock where a horse didn't want to be caught and was running around. Cupid's head and tail went up and he pranced a little. He settled down after a few moments though.
I have been longing him before I ride, in case it helps for his back warm up a little before mounting. I've also been spraying his back with Sore no More spray before currying.
He is still showing a little reluctance to pick up the trot, but is getting better. Today I couldn't get him to pick up the left lead canter though. We are not sure why, he seems to be moving very well otherwise. I will try it on the longe line next this weekend and see if he gets it without my interference. My trainer said with young horses sometimes it's two steps forward, one step back.
We also decided to do a course of UlcerGard, just in case. I was told there wouldn't be any bad side effects even if it's not really necessary. My trainer asked me if he was being "more mouthy than usual" as he was chewing on first some spurs, then his lunge line. But he's always done that.
Our first ride back was just a light hack around the property. He seemed to be feeling okay, and was very good about walking through some rough trails that were pretty overgrown. Though he is getting worst about trying to stop and eat! We had a little excitement when we walked by a paddock where a horse didn't want to be caught and was running around. Cupid's head and tail went up and he pranced a little. He settled down after a few moments though.
I have been longing him before I ride, in case it helps for his back warm up a little before mounting. I've also been spraying his back with Sore no More spray before currying.
He is still showing a little reluctance to pick up the trot, but is getting better. Today I couldn't get him to pick up the left lead canter though. We are not sure why, he seems to be moving very well otherwise. I will try it on the longe line next this weekend and see if he gets it without my interference. My trainer said with young horses sometimes it's two steps forward, one step back.
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| I wasn't sure Cupid would like these healthier treats, but he gives them two hooves up! |
Wednesday, October 5, 2016
Learning to Ground Drive
Since we can't ride, I decided Cupid and I should try a little ground driving! It's possible Cupid did a little of this in his early training but I don't know for sure. My trainer is experienced in it so I knew we would be in good hands regardless.
I started out with a little light longing. Cupid was less reluctant to go, though the first time I asked him to pick up a trot going to the left he did pin his ears at me and give me a dirty look! But he trotted around and looked good. We did a little walk and trot both directions, then I put on his balancing side reins and did a little trot and canter each direction. He picked up the left lead the first time I asked, but then the second time he was incorrect a few times before he got it.
Then we snapped on a longe line on each side, and let him get used to it running down his side and over his back and behind him, which did not present a problem. My trainer got into position, behind and slightly to the inside of him, and I was by his head just in case. She asked Cupid to walk forward with a cluck and he responded right away. We started out walking around the arena along the rail with a few walk-halt-walks. Cupid was perfect! I thought Cupid would be a little confused about a person being behind instead of next to him and try to turn around, but he acted like he knew what he was supposed to do! We did a few changes of direction down the diagonal as well as turning in a half circle. Then my trainer had him go in a circle and let the lines get a little longer and got him up to a trot. Cupid continued to be perfect!
Then it was my turn to take the reins. I had to resist the urge to get him going by raising and lowering the lines, like how you see them doing on a stagecoach in an old movie! I tried to keep a light feel on the lines, and make sure we stayed straight. It was fun, and I was really proud of how good Cupid was.
I started out with a little light longing. Cupid was less reluctant to go, though the first time I asked him to pick up a trot going to the left he did pin his ears at me and give me a dirty look! But he trotted around and looked good. We did a little walk and trot both directions, then I put on his balancing side reins and did a little trot and canter each direction. He picked up the left lead the first time I asked, but then the second time he was incorrect a few times before he got it.
Then we snapped on a longe line on each side, and let him get used to it running down his side and over his back and behind him, which did not present a problem. My trainer got into position, behind and slightly to the inside of him, and I was by his head just in case. She asked Cupid to walk forward with a cluck and he responded right away. We started out walking around the arena along the rail with a few walk-halt-walks. Cupid was perfect! I thought Cupid would be a little confused about a person being behind instead of next to him and try to turn around, but he acted like he knew what he was supposed to do! We did a few changes of direction down the diagonal as well as turning in a half circle. Then my trainer had him go in a circle and let the lines get a little longer and got him up to a trot. Cupid continued to be perfect!
Then it was my turn to take the reins. I had to resist the urge to get him going by raising and lowering the lines, like how you see them doing on a stagecoach in an old movie! I tried to keep a light feel on the lines, and make sure we stayed straight. It was fun, and I was really proud of how good Cupid was.
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